A Meaningful Gift for the Imperfect Teacher

by Kendal Privette on December 16, 2011

Writing for this blog has forced me to analyze what I do and why I do it, so today, because I was curious, I asked my students to compile lists of the qualities they appreciate in teachers. They wrote, ranked and shared until they had  assembled forty-five adjectives. It’s a tall order, this list, and one I strive to fill.  Here are a few of my favorites -

patient

creative

loving

kind

fun

active

helpful

optimistic

even-tempered

humorous

world-saving

But there are days. Headache days. Should-have-gone-to-bed-earlier days. Worried-about-family days. Days I make ineffective decisions. Days I am unprepared and self-centered.  Days I expect perfection from 12-year-olds. I admit that on those days I embody few of the qualities my students treasure in a teacher. I had one today, one of those days.  It started with a 9.5-on-the-Privette-scale headache and slid quickly into the pits by noon. Bedraggled is the best adjective to describe me after a twelve hour day.

But thank goodness for tomorrows. And thank goodness for gifts. Oh, it is the Christmas season, and my students will come bearing gifts. Coffee. Mugs. Candles. Chocolate. Nutella. Gift Cards. I am smiling now, thinking of how excited they are to give. But on the top of my wish list tonight? Grace. These students, I know them, and I believe that they will give and give abundantly. They will bestow upon this teacher forgiveness undeserved.  

So I would like to add a forty-sixth adjective to the slate  - blessed.

Kendal blogs at a spacious place 

  • http://www.lauraparkerblog.com laura

    Kendal, loved this– the reality of it and the knowledge that every teacher in the world can relate to having THOSE days. Thanks for making the rest of us not feel so “alone” in our struggle.

    Merry Christmas, friend!

    • http://www.kendalprivette.blogspot.com Kendal Privette

      Thank you, Laura. My tomorrow was fantastic!

  • Dianne

    Beautifully written! I second those emotions :-) Children have the ability to forgive – which I think is the most important trait of all. They forgive and forget… as often as necessary… I have too many of those days of which you write. And my children are so forgiving – thank goodness!

    • http://www.lauraleighparker.com Laura Parker

      I, too, loved the list and the reminder that kids oftentimes have shorter memories than we give them credit for. I find that the hardest critic of ME, is ME.

    • http://www.kendalprivette.blogspot.com Kendal Privette

      Thank you, Dianne! And yes, they forgive and it is awesome! Love you!

  • Debbie Church

    Kendal,
    This is wonderful…I’m sure you’re a GREAT teacher. Everyone of you “Finley’s” are definately “gifted” an I think you are exactly in the place you were meant to be. You are a teacher that will make a difference in each and every life you touch. You’ve been given a great challenge as a teacher. Teacher’s make all the difference in the world. You have the power to make a child feel special, worthy to be loved and want to learn. God bless you and keep you. Keep on keeping on. You’re amazing!

    • http://www.kendalprivette.blogspot.com Kendal Privette

      Thank you, Debbie! You are a great encouragement.

  • Heather C

    Kendall – your blogs make me feel better and they inspire me so much. You are such an awesome teacher and amazing person, as well as a mentor for me. Sometimes it takes words from those you work with to remind you why you do what you do. THANKS!!!

    • http://www.kendalprivette.blogspot.com Kendal Privette

      Thank you, Heather! You made me smile!

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